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TIPS FOR PARENTS ABOUT BULLYING
 How To Tell If Your Child Might Be a Victim of Bullying

• He/She just weeks ago looked forward to going to school and couldn't wait to share the days events.  However, lately the child does not seem interested and does not offer any news about the day.  When asked, he/she shrugs if off as "nothing special happened."
• Your child suddenly does not feel well every morning before school to the point of tears.
• He/She is having trouble sleeping.  The child either comes home from school only wanting to go to sleep or at night has trouble going to sleep.
• Your child is suddenly failing or his/her grades are dropping. 
• He/she seems isolated and sad all the time.
• Your child has come home several times without a backpack or has reported "losing" his/her lunch money or other belongings.  

What Do You Do Now?

• Don't wait.  Talk to your child.  Some parents think that kids will work things out.  If your child is being bullied chances are he/she is crying for help and you just don't know it.  Sit down and talk to your child.  Listen and assure him/her that it is not his/her fault.
• The way you react plays a HUGE part with how your child is going to feel now that it is out in the open.  You may be upset or even angry but do not show it.  Your child might think you are mad at him/her or even disappointed.  This is your time to be supportive. 
• It is typical for children to develop low self-esteem when being bullied.  Tell your child that they should feel proud and brace that he/she has chosen to come forward and that you know that must be scary.  You can tell your child you are proud of them but your goal is for your child to feel that for him/herself.
• Make a plan together.  Bullying should not be tolerated by any means at school.  Call your school counselor first and talk to her and your child's teacher to let them know what is going on.
• It is important that you let your child know that fighting back is not the answer.  Encourage your child to always have a buddy with them and steer clear of the bully until the school can get involved.